MERCY NYAMU: 10 tips to perfect the art of networking

There is no such thing as a "useless contact"

In Summary
  • Networking holds varied meanings for different individuals. Often, it emerges as a resource sought when people require assistance, especially when navigating their next career step.
  • When you meet someone new, take the time to listen to what they have to say. Ask questions and show genuine interest in their work.
Mercy Nyamu
Mercy Nyamu
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What aspects of networking occasionally render it more akin to a requisite inconvenience rather than a savvy approach for advancing one's career, business, or personal endeavours?

In today's dynamic landscape, fostering robust professional relationships is paramount.

Whether you're embarking on your career journey or are a seasoned veteran, honing your networking skills can facilitate relationship-building, uncover fresh avenues, and propel your career forward.

Networking holds varied meanings for different individuals. Often, it emerges as a resource sought when people require assistance, especially when navigating their next career step.

Recently, someone I greatly admire mentioned that I possess good networking abilities.

This sparked curiosity among several peers who inquired about cultivating their own networking skills.

Well, here are some strategies for forging connections:

There is no such thing as a "useless contact"

This belief holds great significance for me, as I owe a debt of gratitude to a security guard, who once facilitated a vital connection to my previous workplace—a story known only to a select few.

In our busy lives, time is a precious commodity, and we often guard it fiercely. Consequently, we may be inclined to categorise individuals as either "useful" or "not so useful." But the truth is that everybody is somebody's somebody.

Attend events

Engage in industry or professional networking events tailored to your interests and objectives. These occasions provide valuable opportunities to connect with like-minded individuals.

Practice active listening (there's a reason we have two ears and one mouth)

When you meet someone new, take the time to listen to what they have to say. Ask questions and show genuine interest in their work. This can help you build a strong connection and establish trust.         

Know your goals and be intentional about them

Broadening your network demands clear intent and direction. Before attending events, articulate your networking objectives. Reflect on the value you bring and how you can support others.

Give before you receive

Networking is not just about getting something for yourself. If you meet someone who is looking for a job, offer to introduce them to someone in your network who may be able to help.

Embrace authenticity

When engaging in networking endeavours, authenticity is key. Avoid the temptation to portray a persona that doesn't align with your true self. People have a keen sense of insincerity, which can significantly detract from your interactions.

Maintain a polished appearance

In a world where personal branding and presentation hold significant sway, the fusion of personal grooming and professional poise has reached new prominence.

Alongside your attire, maintaining eye contact, delivering a firm handshake, offering a warm smile, and adopting proper posture all signal confidence and ease in social interactions.

Follow up and nurture your connections

Remember, networking isn't a one-time event—it's an ongoing endeavour driven by your intention to cultivate enduring connections. To ensure continuity, take these two steps:

Store contact information promptly: Input all contact details into your system without delay to ensure accessibility wherever you go.

Maintain communication: Continuously seek opportunities to stay in touch and provide value to your network contacts.

Maximise the environment

Embrace sociability by conversing with individuals beyond your familiar circle.

Expand your reach to include those who may be alone. Step out of your comfort zone and interact with people from diverse backgrounds and age groups.

Be patient

In the grand scheme of things, attending a single conference, networking event, or social gathering may not radically alter the course of your life.

However, the more you engage in networking and meet new individuals, the more proficient you become at follow-up interactions.

Conclusion

When attending networking events, most people offer the same trusted advice: bring business cards, give a strong handshake, make eye contact, listen and be curious, etc.

But to be a super-connector, it is what you do before and after the networking event that will make

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