As Valentine’s Day fever sweeps across the country, women in Radio Africa Group offices are redefining the celebration of love.
From self-gifting to honoring family bonds, many are shifting focus from the commercialised romance narrative to more personal and heartfelt expressions.
Whether it is gifting a husband, cherishing children, or simply appreciating oneself, women are embracing love in all its forms this year.
One lady shared that she doesn’t expect a gift from anyone but will still gift herself.
“It is a day of celebrating love in general, not just romantic relationships,” she said.
For another, Valentine’s Day is about showing gratitude to her family.
“I thank God for my parents’ love and look forward to seeing them this weekend.”
The feeling of lowering expectations to avoid disappointment was common.
“I am keeping my expectations low just in case. But I’ll definitely be gifting someone,” one lady remarked.
However, she plans to gift someone special regardless. Others view the day as a special time to express appreciation beyond romantic partners.
Most ladies agreed that love should be shown daily, not limited to February 14.
“Love should be expressed every day, but the hype makes it special,” another respondent said.
Another echoed: “Valentine’s is just a reminder to appreciate the people who matter.”
Mothers too are finding ways to celebrate.
A lady whose daughter is her 'Valentine' plans to gift her little one.
“She is my gift. I became a parent because of her,” she explained.
One lady shared her plan to spend the weekend with her parents, grateful for their love.
“I have zero expectations for the day, but I thank God for my parents,” she said.
Others expressed a desire to receive a gift, though they had no one to gift in return. Instead, they plan to treat themselves as a way to celebrate self-love.
Another shared that while she expected a gift, she would also be giving one to her husband because the excitement around Valentine’s Day made it feel special
While many embrace gifting and celebration, a few expressed skepticism.
“It has become too commercialised. Why wait for Valentine’s Day to show love?” one lady posed.
Another said she wouldn’t wear red or carry flowers to avoid societal pressures.
This Valentine’s Day, Kenyan women are choosing to celebrate on their own terms whether through self-love, family appreciation, or thoughtful gifts for those they cherish.
The essence of the day remains clear: love in all its forms deserves to be honored.
